You won't have to worry about fighting them in the future unless you do something to directly oppose them. When you come to an arrangement, you will find that the faction villages, strongholds, and armies no longer have a red outline around them. Sometimes the price of peace is a little too high, so you might have a hard time getting there. Unfortunately, it is not as easy as influencing them to understand that you want to form peace. You want to locate armies with distinct names below. You can see who the leader of a faction is by checking it in your encyclopedia and pressing the Alt-left key while walking around the map. As you approach them, you have the opportunity to talk about finding peace between the two of you. You have to search for one of the warring faction leaders to talk to them. However, you can antagonize another faction enough times by looting their villages and caravans, causing them to start a war against you.ДЇor those who want to find peace with a warring faction, you have an alternative. For now, it's gray when you view it in the Kingdom menu. The best way to achieve this is to make peace, which is an essential objective of any war.ДЄt this time, the standard method of declaring peace with another faction, as well as declaring war against them, is displayed. do, you will eventually have to regroup to recover your forces and resupply your armies.

You might find yourself declaring war on them, and so you will. Right now I play normal and it seems the game behaves more reasonable than in easy mode but sieging town is damn hard, especially those Rhodok towns.War and Combat is a performance in Mount and Blade II: Bannerlord, and you'll find yourself fighting at least one of the game's various powerful factions. By the time they said yes, I said no and wiped both of them off the map.

That makes me think diplomacy was so broken that it makes no sense whatsoever to negotiate (when the bug appeared and I'm not the only one to notice the endless war cycle) so I just go on and destroyed both kingdoms. Every time, they said no, I took more lands and they have feasts left & right too. Something like 'I hit them so hard and don't let them recover but I feel like being intimidated by Sanja Khan (same response with the Vaegir King) so I want to avoid hostilities' while I beat them badly. They just don't quit and when I asked my lords about the war to gauge the response, the response doesn't make sense neither. Something like 350+ days with the Khergits & Vaegir all at the same time. No, it was with Sanja Khan right after I declared independent. But once the damage you dealt to them reaches 100 (if you use cheat you will see on faction menu when factions fight there is a bracket with 2 number in it) and your damage is more than 1/2 or their damage dealt to you, they will often reconsider about making peace with you as they see this war to be too costy.ДЄnother good tactic is to siege castle back again after losing it (as you did before) as the enemy marshall's controvsery will eventually rise too high to command any other lords forcing him to resign, leaving their kingdom temporarily vulnerable giving you the chance to snatch a couple from castles/towns from them. If the attacking kingdom is more aggressive (like Swadia) they will naturally do more damage on the other kingdom (yours in this case), and will see themselves as winning the war as long as their damage dealt to your is twice as much or more.

Usually when both sides dealt a certain amount of damage peace will be made. Each method I mentioned above about dealing damage to a kingdom has its own value and they add up as war drags on. On most cases, there is a calculation that takes place when factions goes to war with eachother. However as you mentioned your kingdom has gotten the worst from fighting meaning Swadia has dealt more damage on your kingdom by (killing peasants, looting villages, sieging castles/towns, defeating lord armies, or raiding caravan if you have a town), I would recommend you to siege their towns if you can as it serves both a distraction which forces their army to come and aid the siege and if fast enough, take it from them and deal damage to their kingdom. If by any chance Swadia is on another front war or 2, it will help you alot as they will be distracted and eager to make peace if they are on a 3 or more sided war. Also considering the size of your kingdom (2 castle?) and Swadia's total territory (about 38 fiefs), they will see you as a simple way to expand their own territory. RTR is a must if you want peace or no kingdom will view you as another monarchy but a simple warlord.

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